

Earlier this 12 months, I shared the primary submit in our Wit & Delight entertaining collection, “How to Host a Casual Dinner Party.” This collection is a collaboration between me and my buddy Lisa. Each avid hosts, we wished to share concepts for entertaining which might be approachable and particular abruptly. I’m so enthusiastic about our second entertaining collection installment: The Dessert Occasion!
Life is full within the weeks main as much as the top of the 12 months. Discovering time to attach with family and friends can fall by the wayside, particularly for these in a season when babies are a part of their day by day routine.
Since engaged on this collection, I’ve realized the fun of planning forward. Interested by methods to chop again on labor and make issues particular is a lot simpler whenever you’re not operating on impromptu plans. Lisa and I wished to place collectively a menu that may work for a day gathering—suppose afternoon teatime, however with desserts. The idea has you delegating recipes and duties to mates, which is each collaborative and enjoyable!


What Is a Dessert Occasion?
The concept of a dessert social gathering is to get pleasure from dessert and snacks with mates or household. The menu may be informal and the workload may be cut up between friends so everybody makes one thing to share. This entertaining thought is ideal for the vacation season however it may be executed any time of 12 months.
The great thing about this sort of social gathering is that it’s utterly versatile. It may be on a weekend afternoon or night. The visitor record may be intimate or large. You may sit round a eating desk or—like we did—merely collect round a espresso desk in the lounge. Right here’s what our dessert social gathering entailed.


Come Over For… A Dessert Occasion
Visitor Record
There have been six folks on our dessert social gathering visitor record, together with myself. I invited a number of mates who like to bake and some mates who would fairly carry savory snacks. I believe six is the proper quantity, however a celebration like this works effectively for scaling the visitor record up or down.




Menu
As a result of dessert is so indulgent, we designed the menu to incorporate each candy and savory treats. Lisa developed every of the dessert recipes. A couple of menu gadgets require extra time and ability; others simply require a visit to the shop. Three folks baked desserts, three folks collaborated on the charcuterie board, and I offered the bubbles because the host.
For drinks, I like to recommend going with one thing particular like Billecart Brut Rose or one thing for on a regular basis ingesting like Il Mostro Frizzante BIANCO. For these not imbibing, attempt Dry Wit Pippi.
Right here’s what our menu appeared like:
- Ricotta Olive Oil Cake With Cardamom, Orange, and Pistachio Butter
- Poached Pears With Whipped Brie Frosting and Cinnamon Oat Crumble
- Zesty Orange and Chocolate Shortbread Cookies
- Charcuterie Board
- Bubbles






Schedule
Nearly every part may be carried out forward of time, so the ending touches come collectively fairly simply on the day of the social gathering. For such a social gathering, you’ll be able to embody your pals in every of the prep duties, akin to:
- Assembling the charcuterie board
- Plating the pears
- Setting the desk
- Constructing a fireplace
- Lighting candles
- Pouring drinks
- Placing on a playlist they’ve been loving




With informal events like this one, a thrown-together really feel makes everybody relaxed and cozy in your house. Plan to take a seat down about 30 – 45 minutes after everybody arrives.
If a collaborative prep course of isn’t your form of factor, set your desk (or espresso desk in entrance of the hearth when you have one), construct a fireplace, mild candles, and placed on a playlist forward of time. Seize mates drinks as soon as they arrive, and invite them to position their contribution on the desk. As soon as every part has been plated, have every particular person share somewhat notice about what they introduced, just like the scrumptious new cheese they discovered on the market, the method of piping the frosting on the cake, and so on. I’ve discovered speaking about meals with mates who care about meals to be pretty.


Dessert events are brief—this one lasted two hours with my mates (from 2 to 4 p.m.). We loved a heat fireplace at my home at golden hour and have been residence an hour or two earlier than dinner. Parting methods, every of us went on with our busy days, with one particular person heading off to work, one other going to the grocery retailer, and one other going residence to get dinner began.
I really like when sharing meals with mates suits into day by day life with ease.
There’s extra to come back! This entertaining collection will proceed in 2025. We need to share find out how to host a no-cook lunch, a meal open air, and an approachable fancy feast, amongst different concepts. Keep tuned!




Kate is the founding father of Wit & Delight. She is presently studying find out how to play tennis and is without end testing the boundaries of her artistic muscle. Comply with her on Instagram at @witanddelight_.